Friday 10 October 2014

Nabeez: Favourite Drink of the Holy Prophet (pbuh)


'Nabeez' was one of the favourite drinks of the Holy Prophet (pbuh). In his time, it was typically made with dates and water.

It is an alkalizing tonic, having the tendency to remove acidity from the stomach and digestive system and it also helps to remove other metabolic wastes from the body. It improves digestion as it's high in soluble fibre and it strengthens the memory. It assists the spleen function, liver, throat, chest and prostate, and so is particularly good for men. Nabeez will also benefit patients of Arthritis and elevated levels of Uric Acid (gout).

Apparently, it is nothing but soaking the dates (or raisins/sultanas) overnight and drinking the water in which they were soaked in the morning insha'Allah, but when it is embraced and honoured as one of the great Sunnah's of Nabi (pbuh), it pulls down Shifa, blessings and mercy from the treasures of Allah Tala.

'Ajwa' are the best variety to use if making Nabeez with stoneless dates and 'Manaqqa' is the best variety of raisins for making it with raisins, but black raisins can also be used, those colours were not Created without reason, so it is always preferable to keep changing our diets with new colours and and trying new varieties.

After Isha prayer, soak around 100 grams of dates or raisins in 1 litre of drinkable / healthy water and keep the utensil covered with a plate. Ensure the water is kept cool.

Next morning after Fajr, you can drink the water and eat the soaked fruit as was the traditional method, or just use your blender (water + soaked fruit) to obtain a beautiful cloudy Nabeez. This is the method I have used for the smoothie recipe below.

And if you soak the fruit in morning, drink it in the evening. Nabeez should be consumed within 12 hours of soaking time, but if it is kept air tight inside the refrigerator, it will not spoil for 2-3 days insha'Allah. Serve cold Nabeez to your guests instead of tea, coffee, juices and sodas, and explain to them the beauty of the Sunnah of our beloved Mesenger (pbuh) and the superb health benefits.

Never mix raisins and dates together; their Nabeez should be made separately.

Nabeez and Pomegranate smoothie.
 
Ingredients (serves 2)
 
50g dates, or raisins, soaked in 100ml fresh clean water. This time I used sultanas
250ml pomegranate juice.
50g frozen blueberries.
50g frozen strawberries.
50g frozen pomegranate kernels.
Blend all ingredients in a blender until the mixture becomes smooth and enjoy in the morning for breakfast or serve to your family and friends in hot weather.

Friday 19 September 2014

Wazifa for Success in Everything Very Easy and 100% Working

Salam! I am sharing one of the best, very easy and 100% working wird/ wazifa or amal which will definitely bring prosperity and light and happiness in your life. And it will remove all of your worries of your life. Your present and future will be successful and delightful. Help of Allah Subhana wa Taala will be with you in every your work and hajaat. IN SHA ALLAH

English Explaination:- THESE ARE SURAH TAUBA VERSES 128 & 129.....First of all
remember/ memorize these verses with correct pronunciation from HOLY QURAN. These verses have great importance and effects in them. The benefits of these verses can not be counted by anyone. However, if you have wealth or job problems, or problem with boss or you want people to obey and regard you, or else this an easy way to solve these and all your life problems. What you have to do is that you have to read/Wird these verses every time while working, sitting, walking, running, no matter you are in ablution (WUZZU) or not. Try to read more and more. IN SHA ALLAH AZZA WA JAL you will start seeing its benefits after one week. All people related to you and your boss will start giving you importance and they will regard you. Your wealth and job problems will start solving. All your problems will solve automatically. You will never ever need to read another wazifa. Another good thing about this wazifa is that there are no strict restrictions in it so you can read anytime everywhere. Just try this..And during reciting also recite darood sharif in intervals...e.g: you read one time in start then you recite THE VERSES for some times like 200 times then again recite Darood Sharif then again start reciting VERSES.



Urdu Explanation:                                  (Surah Tauba Ayat 128-129)
Sab say pehle to ap in ayaat ko Quran Pak say sahi sahi Talaffuz k sath Yaad kar lain..In Ayaat ki buhat he Shaan hai or in main bohat say KHazanay pinhan hain...In Ayaat main saaf saaf Huzoor Pak SALLALLAH-o-ALAIHe WASALLAM ki Tareef bayan ki gai hai...Ap ko yeh karna hai rozana har waqt ziada say ziada jitna bhi ho sake in ayaat ka wird karte rahen chalte. phirtay, Uthtay, Bethtay, Wuddu, BayWuddu parhte rahen...aap aik hafte k under he is k asraat dekhna shuru kar dain gai... Aap k officers/boss ki nazron main ap ka Rob or Dabdaba qaim ho jaye ga wo or dusray log rishtedaar ap ko ahmyat dena shuru karden gai...Har Jana Unjana shakhs ap ki Izzat karay ga or Deen-o-Dunya k kaam khud ba khud hona shuru ho jayen gai..Is main aik or maze ki baat yeh hai keh is main koi pabandian waghaira bhi nahi hain..yani agar parhnay k doran ap ki tawajjo nahi hai tab bhi koi masla nahi hai bus aap parhte rahen or phir IN SHA ALLAH AZZA WA JAL aap ki mushkilaat ka hal Ghaib sai nikalna shuru ho jaye ga...Dunya ki koi museebat ap ko gham nahi pohncha sakay ga...ap is par amal kar k dekhen is main to koi qaid-o-pabandi bhi nahi hai..bas sabr or yaqeen-o-umeed sai isay aprhte rahen..OR HAAN PARHNAY K DORAAN WAQTAN-FAWAQTAN DAROOD PAK BHI PARHTAY RAHEN BEECH MAIN

Wazifa for Immigration/ Visa Problem

Eng:- Sometimes we confront obstacles in immigration process so for this purpose here is a nice and easy
wazifa. Just read 7 times Surah Al-Quraish after every prayer/ Salah and Dua about your problem IN SHA ALLAH AZZA WA JAL soon your problem will start solving..

URDU:- Agar apko immigration visa k lye masail ka samna ha or rukavaten a rahi hen to ye asan sa wazifa pesh ha…Ap rozana Panchon Namazon k bad 7 Martaba Surah Al Quraish Sharif 7 Martaba tilawat Karen or apne masle k lye dua karte rahen IN SHA ALLAH AZZA WA JAL jald he ap ka masla solve ho jaye ga.


MUST READ DAROOD SHARIF & BISMILLAH SHARIF IN START OF EVERY WAZIFA NO MATTER MENTIONED OR NOT If you are liking my efforts please share it to others on face book and other communities...... I welcome Your Comments!

Wazifa for Seeing Future in True Dream

If you sleep in wudu every night and while you are trying to sleep read “Ya badi-o” (Allah’s name) you will not only see true dreams but also will see what ever is going to happen with you the next day in your dream.

The condition is that you cannot tell anyone about your dreams. If you did they will stop.


Slowly and slowly the dreams will become clearer. You will not need any one to tell you the meaning. So be patient.


If you see some thing bad is about to happen please do this when you wake up (and don’t tell anyone about it)


Darood e Ibrahimi 1 time


"Bismillah hil lazi la ya durro ma as me hi Shay un fil arde vala fis sema-e va ho vas sami ul aleem"….3 times


Darood e Ibrahui 1 time.

Friday 13 June 2014

Dua for Deafness

Bismillah
“Bismillah Hirrahman Nirrahim”
“In The Name of Allah The Most Beneficent The Most Merciful”
“Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam”
And We will surely test you with something of fear and hunger and a loss of wealth and lives and fruits, but give good tidings to the patient, 2:155
Dua for Deafness

أَسْـأَلُ اللهَ العَـظيـم، رَبَّ العَـرْشِ العَـظيـم أَنْ يَشْفِيَكَ

Dua for Deafness

Transliteration:

‘As’alullaahal-’Adheema Rabbal-’Arshil-’Adheemi ‘an yashfiyaka.

Meaning: I ask Almighty Allah , Lord of the Magnificent Throne, to make you well. (Recite seven times in Arabic)
Reference: At-Tirmithi, Abu Dawud. See also Al-Albani, Sahih At-Tirmithi 2/210 and Sahihul-Jami’ As-Saghir 5/180.
It was narrated from Aa’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) that when any of us fell sick, the Messenger of Allah (peaceand blessings of Allah be upon him) would wipe him with his right hand then say: “Adhhib il-ba’s, Rabbi l-naas washfi anta al-Shaafi laa shifaa ailla shifaa uka shifaa an laa yughaadir saqaman. (Remove the harm, O Lord of humankind and heal him, for You are the Healer and there is no healing except Your healing, with a healing which does not leave any disease behind).”
Narrated by al-Bukhaari (5675) and Muslim (2191).
Inshallah either Allah will give you back your hearing or give you a reward.

Friday 6 June 2014

RAMADAN TIME TABLE 2014


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Wednesday 4 June 2014

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Saturday 31 May 2014

The Blessings of Vinegar and Health Benefits

“A household which has vinegar will never suffer from poverty”.
(Narrated by Umm, Tirmidhi, Baihaqi)

"Vinegar is a comfort for man” Narrated by Muslim.

“Allah has put blessing in vinegar, for truly it was used by the Prophets before me.”
Narrated by Ayesha, Muslim and Ibn Maja.

‘The best of condiments or condiment is vinegar’. hadith
condiment is any seasonings used to enhance the flavour of food; salt or pepper, spices for example.

The Prophet (s.a.w.s.) was reported to have once remarked that vinegar was the seasoning of all the prophets who came before him.

Prophet Muhammad (saws) liked vinegar.

Jabir narrated, "The Messenger of Allah, peace be upon him, took me one day with him to his house. He was served some bread. He asked: 'Is there any dip?' They replied 'No, only some vinegar.' He said, 'Vinegar is a good dip.'

Jabir used to say, "I have loved vinegar since I heard it from Allah’s Prophet".

Naf'a said, "I have loved vinegar since I heard it from Jabir."
[Muslim, Abu Dawud, Nasa’i]

Just in case your thinking Vinegar is a Halal and a loved Sunnah and was used by many prophets before.

As soon as you take vinegar (or citric acid, as a powder), it starts to eliminate fatigue. You can notice this in only two hours.

You can confirm this. If you look at your urine two hours after you take vinegar, and you will find it to be more clear. Or, if you are unwilling to look at it closely, examine it with a piece of pH test paper (litmus paper). Before you take vinegar, the pH test paper will show that your urine is acidic, due to fatigue-creating substances in your body.

Two hours after you take vinegar, the test paper will show more alkaline. These results mean that the previous fatigue substances were decreased or removed by taking the vinegar.

The liver dissolves the poisonous matters which were made in our body, so we must always keep it working well. Meat, fish, eggs, coconut oil, greens, and other nourishing foods as well as vinegar act like medicines for the liver.

Some Eastern medicines do believe that depression is the symptom of a "stagnant" or tired liver. If you believe in this philosophy, then apple cider vinegar would help to fight depression, since it is a great medium to help detoxify and clean the liver.

Over the centuries, oxymel– a combination of apple cider vinegar and honey – has been widely used to dissolve painful calcium deposits in the body, for arthritis-like pains and for other health problems such as hay fever.

"Vinegar performs the role of disinfectant for the intestines".

Here is one recipe to make a detox tea with apple cider vinegar just add hot water to 2 tablespoons of apple cider vinegar and sweeten it with maple syrup or organic honey. Making this simple apple cider vinegar liver detox recipe will take only a few minutes with results lasting three to seven days.

A variation of the above apple cider vinegar liver detox recipe calls for a teaspoon each of apple cider vinegar and blackstrap molasses added to a glass of water or lemon water. Drink this mixture upon getting up in the morning.

To soothe pain caused by rheumatoid arthritis by applying a pad soaked with vinegar and water to painful joints.

Some people advise it to be used for gargle for the mouth and throat. It disinfects the inside of the mouth from germs. The usual dosage for gargle is to mix one to three tea spoons of cider vinegar in a glass of water, in morning and at night."

Note: The term ACV = Apple Cider Vinegar

Arthritic pains:
Many suffer from this disease in the west and it is caused by the gathering of metabolic toxic waste in the tissues. In this context, ACV speeds up metabolism and excretes the toxic wastes from the tissues.

Blood pressure:
The potassium in ACV along with other substances makes the blood thinner and is helpful in controlling blood pressure.

Cholesterol control:
Many heart attacks are caused by high fats and cholesterol in your blood. The fiber in ACV helps to absorb fats and cholesterol by expelling them from the body as waste materials.

Diabetes:
The dietary fiber in ACV is also helpful in controlling glucose levels in the blood..

Strong Bones:
Minerals like manganese, calcium, magnesium, silicon and iron develop bone mass and make them stronger.

Yeast Infections:
ACV is also useful for yeast infections like Candida caused by the unbalance of acid levels in the body. Making a solution of ACV in warm water and douching can help with the symptoms.

Chest congestion:
Apple cider vinegar is also useful in flu or chest congestion. Applying ACV with pepper on the chest can help relieve some of the congestion.

Sore Throat:
If you have a sore throat, gargle with ACV mixed with water.

Digestion:
In your digestive system hydrochloric acid and pepsin are two essential components that break down the food to be digested properly. The lack of these components can cause food poisoning. ACV has ability to enhance their functionality and help prevent food poisoning.

Nasal Congestions:
Apple cider vinegar is sometimes helpful in nasal congestion.

Vinegar is Useful in well functioning metabolism; Reducing cholesterol (the dangerous LDL cholesterol type); Regulating the water content in the cells and body; Reducing water retention in the body; Reducing excess sodium from the body; Helps with regulating blood pressure; Assists in preventing circulatory problems; Helps with diminishing premature calcification of the arteries; Helps increase concentration and memory; Assists in blood circulation, body temperature as well as vitality and energy.

Vinegar is both cold and hot, nearly balancing between the two. Mixed it with rose water, it is an excellent remedy for toothache and headache. Vinegar dissolves phlegm. Modern medicine also acknowledge its anti-cough, anti-inflammation and digestive properties.

We always have to remember that cider vinegar will not have the same effect on everyone. Some may benefit from it and some may not. Very few people may be allergic to vinegar. Nevertheless vinegar is beneficial for the majority of people.

As we sort through the wisdoms of Prophetic nutrition in our attempt to reconcile them with modern "science," we must always remember what the Qur’an says, “Eat of the good things We have provided for your sustenance, but commit no excess therein." (20:81)

Apple cider vinegar contains ninety different substances.

It also contains important minerals, trace elements and vitamins (as listed underneath) as well acetic acid, propionic acid, lactic acid, enzymes, amino acids as well as roughage in the form of potash and apple pectin.

Potassium, Calcium, Magnesium, Phosphorous, Chlorine, Sodium, Sulfur, Copper, Iron, Silicon, Fluorine. Such as thirteen types of carbolic acids, four aldehydes, twenty ketones, eight ethyl acetates etc. Vitamin C, Vitamin E, Vitamin A, Vitamin B1, Vitamin B2, Vitamin B6, Provitamin beta-carotene, Vitamin P.

Honey Will Not Spoil or Rot

Honey is the only food on the planet that will not spoil or rot. It will do what some call turning to sugar. Never boil honey or put it in a microwave. To do so will kill the enzymes in the honey. Make sure your honey is untreated, unprocessed and not heated, in other words get as raw as possible. This will have the greatest benefit. Caution too much honey of any kind is not good for the body. But a little bit will help some of the following conditions.

The Cinamon should be organic. Chinese medicine says it is warming and nourishing for the Kidneys.
 See about different types of Cinnamon:http://www.newrealities.com/index.php/articles-on-health/item/2934-how-to-differentiate-between-ceylon-and-cassia-cinnamon


Weekly World News, a magazine in Canada has given the following list of diseases that can be cured by honey and cinnamon as researched by western scientists:

ARTHRITIS: Arthritis patients may take daily, morning and night, one cup of hot water with two tablespoons of honey and one small teaspoon of cinnamon powder. If taken regularly even chronic arthritis can be cured. In a recent research conducted at the Copenhagen University , it was found that when the doctors treated their patients with a mixture of one tablespoon Honey and half teaspoon Cinnamon powder before breakfast, they found that within a week, out of the 200 people so treated, practically 73 patients were totally relieved of pain, and within a month, mostly all the patients who could not walk or move around because of arthritis started walking without pain.

BLADDER INFECTIONS: Take two tablespoons of cinnamon powder and one teaspoon of honey in a glass of lukewarm water and drink it. It destroys the germs in the bladder.

CHOLESTEROL: Two tablespoons of honey and three teaspoons of Cinnamon Powder mixed in 16 ounces of tea water, given to a cholesterol patient, was found to reduce the level of cholesterol in the blood by 10 percent within two hours. As mentioned for arthritic patients, if taken three times a day, any chronic cholesterol is cured. According to information received in the said Journal, pure honey taken with food daily relieves complaints of cholesterol.

COLDS: Those suffering from common or severe colds should take one tablespoon lukewarm honey with 1/4 spoon cinnamon powder daily for three days. This process will cure most chronic cough, cold, and clear the sinuses. To make it lukewarm, place it in a small jar and let it set in warm water for awhile.

HEART DISEASES: Make a paste of honey and cinnamon powder, apply on bread, instead of jelly and jam, and eat it regularly for breakfast. It reduces the cholesterol in the arteries and saves the patient from heart attack.

Regular use of the above process relieves loss of breath and strengthens the heart beat. In America and Canada, various nursing homes have treated patients successfully and have found that as you age, the arteries and veins lose their flexibility and get clogged; honey and cinnamon revitalize the arteries and veins.

UPSET STOMACH: Honey taken with cinnamon powder cures stomach ache and also clears stomach ulcers from the root.

GAS: According to the studies done in India and Japan , it is revealed that if Honey is taken with cinnamon powder the stomach is relieved of gas.

IMMUNE SYSTEM: Daily use of honey and cinnamon powder strengthens the immune system and protects the body from bacteria and viral attacks. Scientists have found that honey has various vitamins and iron in large amounts. Constant use of Honey strengthens the white blood corpuscles to fight bacterial and viral diseases.

INDIGESTION: Cinnamon powder sprinkled on two tablespoons of honey taken before food relieves acidity and digests the heaviest of meals.

INFLUENZA – FLU: A scientist in Spain has proved that honey contains a natural ' Ingredient' which kills the influenza germs and saves the patient from flu.

LONGEVITY: Tea made with honey and cinnamon powder, when taken regularly, arrests the ravages of old age. Take four spoons of honey, one spoon of cinnamon powder, and three cups of water and boil to make like tea. Drink 1/4 cup, three to four times a day. It keeps the skin fresh and soft and arrests old age. Life spans also increase and even a 100 year old might start performing the chores of a 20-year-old.

PIMPLES: Three tablespoons of honey and one teaspoon of cinnamon powder paste. Apply this paste on the pimples before sleeping and wash it next morning with warm water. If done daily for two weeks, it removes pimples from the root.

WEIGHT LOSS: Daily in the morning one half hour before breakfast on an empty stomach, and at night before sleeping, drink honey and cinnamon powder. Pour boiling into one cup of water of honey and cinnamon. Generally start off with a teaspoon of each, and then adjust depending on taste. Remember honey is a sugar based product, so teaspoon is best to start with. If taken regularly, it reduces the weight of even the most obese person. Also, drinking this mixture regularly does not allow the fat to accumulate in the body even though the person may eat a high calorie diet.

SKIN INFECTIONS: Applying honey and cinnamon powder in equal parts on the affected parts cures eczema, ringworm and all types of skin infections.

FATIGUE: Recent studies have shown that the sugar content of honey is more helpful rather than being detrimental to the strength of the body. Senior citizens, who take honey and cinnamon powder in equal parts, are more alert and flexible. Dr. Milton, who has done research, says that a half tablespoon of honey taken in a glass of water and sprinkled with cinnamon powder, taken daily after brushing and in the afternoon at about 3:00 P.M. when the vitality of the body starts to decrease, increases the vitality of the body within a week.

CANCER: Research in Japan and Australia has revealed that advanced cancer of the stomach and bones have been cured successfully. Patients suffering from these kinds of cancer should daily take one tablespoon of honey with one teaspoon of cinnamon powder for one month three times a day.

BAD BREATH: People in South America first thing in the morning, gargle with one teaspoon of honey and cinnamon powder mixed in hot water, so their breath stays fresh throughout the day.

HEARING LOSS: Daily morning and night honey and cinnamon powder, taken in equal parts helps restore hearing.

CONCLUSION: It is good to take some sort of mixture of cinnamon and honey daily!

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Wednesday 28 May 2014

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Sunday 25 May 2014

Cure for Masturbation

Masturbation: A Major Sin

1. The Prophet (S) is reported to have said, “The one who marries their hand is accursed.” That person who masturbates them self has been cursed by Allah and His Messenger (S) and on the Day of Judgment their hand will be pregnant.
2. It is a means of destroying ones’ life in this world and the Hereafter.
3. It diminishes ones’ health.
4. It is a major sin and if repentance is not made from a major sin, then the person will fall under the threat of being thrown into Hell.
5. This person is potentially not capable of marriage because their semen will become thin.
6. A person may develop many diseases, such as gonorrhea and chancrous, etc.
7. Due to this evil habit, eventually the person becomes involved in fornication or adultery.
8. This evil habit comes upon a person due to the curse of lustful glances. Since it is mentioned in the Qur’an that the person who guards their gaze will be able to guard their private parts, from this we can gauge that the person who casts lustful glances will not be able to guard their private parts. As a result, they lose control of them self.
9. The person becomes weak sexually and mentally meaning that they have memory loss, blood deficiency, their resolutions become weak, their heart becomes weak to such an extent that if a cat were to jump from one place to another this person’s heart would skip a beat or start beating faster as if a lion had just jumped in front of him.
10. The radiance and splendor from one’s face is depleted, dark circles start to form around the eyes and a strange curse befalls this person because this person is involved in a cursed action; they become pale, their eyes go inward, they start to have mood swings. As a result, their body, heart and mind go down a slippery slope towards destruction.
11. If a person does not quit early, then in their youth they develop of a disease of incontinence of bladder.
12. Due to undue hard stroking, the nerves, arteries and veins all tend to die out and blood doesn’t flow properly to that organ, due to which it may become limp and the person no longer has the ability to perform intercourse. They may develop impotence or erectile dysfunction, and thus they will face a great shame in front of their wife, society and the matter could even reach divorce.
13. Repeatedly ejaculating causing ones’ semen to become extremely thin, due to which one loses virility
14. Sometimes the mere rubbing against ones’ clothes or the mere thought of intercourse with ones’ wife may cause ejaculation. One’s organ may become crooked. It may grow in girth from the front and then towards the back due to which a person may not be fully capable of intercourse.
15. A persons’ memory becomes weak, they often experience headaches, due to minor strenuous activity; they may experience temporary blindness, cold sweats and anxiety.
16. Sometimes semen becomes uncontrollable causing ones’ mind to become weak, one to be disinclined and not interested in studying and whatever one learns, they are not able to retain it.

Remedy for Masturbation

1. The primary cure for ridding ones’ self of any evil is himmah, i.e. ones’ one determination. Without ones’ firm determination, there is no cure. Whenever ones’ nafs tries to involve a person in this particular sin then fight it off as if a person were to fight off an enemy that is after their life. Similarly, one should be as determined to save ones’ iman as they would be to save ones’ own life. They should be so determined that they must be willing to give up their life, but not commit sin. The day a person has this type of determination then this evil habit will leave. Also, one should try as much as possible not to be in seclusion.
2. One should ponder over this that the Prophet (S) is reported to have said, the paraphrased meaning of which is, one who masturbates is accursed.
3. Ponder over the shame that one would feel on the Day of Judgment, when this person will be raised and their hand will be pregnant in front of Allah and His Messenger (S).
4. Ponder over all the harms mentioned in the earlier section.
5. Realize that this debasing act only amounts to a short-lived pleasure.
6. Allah is with us all the time.
7. Meditate over the fact that Allah is watching us all the time.
8. This evil habit is due to the curse of lustful glances. Therefore, one should not view any pornographic material and not even go close to pictures in the newspaper, on the internet, cable, television, VCR; DVD etc. to such an extent that one should even start avoiding emails, otherwise random thoughts will come into ones’ mind and will cause heat to develop in ones’ body leading the person to ultimately masturbate.
9. One should not be by them self rather they should be amongst pious friends.
10. One should be concerned to stay in the company of the righteous with the condition that they inform the righteous person of their condition and implement the instructions of the righteous person.
11. To consult ones’ spiritual guide and stipulate a financial penalty such that one feels pain in their heart. This penalty should be in the form of charity. It shows the expertise of the spiritual guide. One should also feel remorse as to how sad their spiritual guide would be.
12. One should be willing to give up their life, but not commit sin. This state of being can only be developed by being in the company of righteous people, therefore adopt the company of the righteous.
13. Guard ones’ gaze and watch over ones’ heart because mere consultation with ones’ spiritual guide and litanies and the company of the righteous is not sufficient. Therefore, one should implement all the advices one receives from their spiritual guide regarding guarding ones’ gaze and watching over ones’ heart.

14. If perchance a person happens to fall prey to this accursed act then each time a minimum of twenty supererogatory prayers should be prayed or such a large amount of charity should be given such that it becomes burdensome on ones’ nafs

Miswaak: Quick View and Benefits

Advantages of the Miswaak:

1. Miswaak strengthens the gums and prevents tooth decay.
2. Miswaak assists in eliminating toothaches and prevents further increase of decay which has already set in.
3. Miswaak creates a fragrance in the mouth.
4. Miswaak is a cure for illness.
5. Miswaak eliminates bad odors and improves the sense of taste.
6. Miswaak sharpens the memory.
7. Miswaak is a cure for headaches.
8. Miswaak creates lustre (noor) on the face of the one who continually uses it.
9. Miswaak causes the teeth to glow.
10. Miswaak strengthens the eyesight.
11. Miswaak assists in digestion.
12. Miswaak clears the voice.
13.
The greatest benefit of using miswaak is gaining the pleasure of Allah.
14.
The reward of Salaah (Prayers) is multiplied 70 times if Miswaak was used before it.

Times when usage of Miswaak is Sunnah:

1. For the recitation of the Qur'an.
2. For the recitation of Hadith.
3. When the mouth emits and odor.
4. For the learning or teaching of virtues of Islaam.
5. For making Dhikrullah (Remebrance of Allah, meditation).
6. After entering ones home.
7. Before entering any good gathering.
8. When experiencing pangs of hunger and thirst.
9. After the signs of death are evident.
10. At the time of Sehri.
11. Before meals.
12. Before undertaking a journey.
13. On returning from a journey.
14. Before sleeping.
15. Upon awakening.

How long should a Miswaak be?

A Miswaak should not be longer than a "span" i.e. the maximum distance between the tips of the thumb and little finger, and it should not be thicker than a finger's breadth.

How should it be used?

A Miswaak should be held in such a manner that the small finger and thumb is below the miswaak and the remaining fingers on its upper side.

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Extensive Rewards ! Easy Dhikr

Below is a short list of some remembrances that you can incorporate in your day. The goal is to make these beautiful praises of the Creator come up from your heart and roll off of your tongue with ease.
  1. Quran: Ultimately, the best dhikr is reading the Quran.
Reward:
You will be rewarded 10 rewards for every letter read. This prize basically illustrates the weight of the Quran in terms of where it should be in your life.

2. SubhanAllah or SubhanAllah wa bihamdihi (“I praise Allah (or All praise if to Allah) above all attributes that do not suit His Majesty.”)
Reward:
A tree will be planted for you in Paradise. Nice! Start growing your own forest right now! Another hadith relates that whoever says this 100 times a day, his/her sins will be forgiven even if they were as much as the foam of the sea [Bukhari].

3. Alhamdulillah (“All praise is for Allah.”)
Reward:
Your scales will be tipped on the Day of Judgment, full of rewards!

4. SubhanAllah wal hamdulillah, wa la ilahaillAllah wa Allahu akbar “I praise Allah (or All Praise if to Allah) above all attributes that do not suit His Majesty. All praise is for Allah. This is no deity worthy of worship besides Allah. Allah is Great.”
Reward:
This combination of dhikr is the one most beloved by Allah, subhana wa ta’ala. When you say them, sins fall off of you like leaves off of trees.

5. La hawla wa la quwwata illa billah (“There is no power or might except (by) Allah.”)
Reward:
You will enter through a special door in Paradise for those who oft use this remembrance.

6. SubhanAllah (x33), Alhamdulillah (x33), Allahu akbar (x34). Can be recited after salat and before you go to bed/sleep. (“I praise Allah (or All praise if to Allah) above all attributes that do not suit His Majesty. All praise is to Allah. Allah is Great.”)
Reward:
We know that this dhikr is said after each salah, but when Fatima (may Allāh be pleased with her) the daughter of the Prophet came to her father requesting a servant to help with the household, the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him) told her to repeat the dhikr before her sleep and the results would be better than having a servant.

7. Astaghfirullah (“I seek Allah’s forgiveness.”)
Reward:
You will get protection from Allah’s punishment. In Surah Nuh, ayah 10-12, Allah relates the story of Prophet Nuh and how he instructed his people to seek Allah’s forgiveness. If they would just say “astagfirullah,” Allah would sent them rain in abundance, and increase their wealth and sons, and give them gardens and rivers in Paradise.

8. Ayahtul-Kursi [2:255].
Reward:
When you recite this verse before you go to sleep, Allah sends a guardian to you and no shaytan will come to you until morning. Those who read this after each salah shall enter Paradise.

Bets Way of Protection is SADQA

Sadqa (charity) jab apne malik ke hath se nikalta hai to Uss waqt 5 jumley kehta hai

1. Main faani maal tha tu nay mujhe baqa di
2. Main tera dushman tha ab tu nay mujhe apna dost bana liya
3. Aaj say pehlay tu meri hifazat karta tha ab mein teri hifazat karoun ga
4. Main haqeer tha tu nay mujhe azeem bana diya
5. Pehlay mein tere hath mein tha ab mein khuda ke haath mein hun
Prophet Muhammad PBUH—
SADQA:

Sadqa is the best way of protection from problems of this world and the world after death, Sadqa is necessary in the treatment of all spiritual diseases too,

KINDS OF SADQA:

There are many ways of giving sadqa, like;

1-food
2-shelter
3-clothing
4-money to needy persons

Food can be provided to Human beings e.g; distribution of Nan kababs or Daal rooti to peoples,

In addition may provide food to animals and its of 4 kinds;

1-Aatshe Sadqa (fire)= Ghost khor animals ki food ( meat, slaughtering (zabiha) of animals, eggs to animals )
2-Baadi Sadqa (air)= Bird’s food ( millet=bajra, wheat )
3-Aabi Sadqa (water)= Fish food ( wet flour balls, boiled rice )
4-Khaki Sadqa (soil)= Insects food ( sugar, black sesame seeds, sooji, broken rice )

NOTE: sadqa must be according to opposite element (ansar) ,i.e;

1-Aatshe (fire) sadqa is for aabi (water) people
2-Baadi (air) sadqa is for khaki (soil) people
3-Aabi (water) sadqa is for aatshe (fire) people
4-Khaki (soil) sadqa is for baadi (air) people

APNA ELEMENT(ANSAR) MALOOM KERNA:

aap ka pukarnay walla naam jiss herf say shurro hoo, ussay zail ki list main dhondain aur apna element(ansar) maloom kerain,

1-Aatshe Haroof=Alif-Hay-Toay-Meen-Fay-Sheen-Zal
2-Baadi Haroof=Bay-Wao-Yea-Noon-Soad-Tay-Zoad
3-Aabi Haroof=Jeem-Zay-Kaf-Seen-Kaaf-Say-Zoay
4-Khaki Haroof=Dal-Haay-Laam-Ain-Ray-Khay-Ghain

Saturday 24 May 2014

Asma e Husna Wazaif

Asmaye husna key bare mein sahi muslim aur tarmizi mein likha hai keh yeh allah tala key 99 naam hain. Inhein jo bhi hifz kar ke dohraye ga ise dunya mein hi nahi aakhrat mein bhi izzat bakhshi jaye gi. Chun keh Allah tala key har naam ki alag khasyat aur alihdah sifat hai lehaza in key fawaid aur khawas bhi mukhtalif hain. Yahan hum chand asmaye husna ka tazkirah kar rahe hain jin ka wird insanon ko mushkilat pareshanyon se chutkara dila sakta hai.

Ya Rehman: Har namaz key baad 100 martabah wird karne se aap par har shakhs mehar baan ho jaye ga aur muhabbat o shafqat se pesh aaye ga.

Ya Salam: Yeh ism 160 martabah parh kar kisi mareez par dam kia jaye to woh shafa yab ho jaye ga.

Ya Azeez: 40 din tak fajar ki namaz key baad wird karne wala shakhs khood kafeel ho jaye ga aur kIsi ki imdad se be neyaz rahe ga.

Ya Khaliq: Roz zuhar key waqt 100 martabah is ka wird maamool bana lia jaye to is key badle Allah pak aik farishatah moqarrar kar dete hain jo ta qiyamat prhne wale key haq mein dua karta rahe ga. Is ka chehra roshan ho jaye ga. Agar koi jora be aulaadi ka shikar hai to woh aik saal tak har roz aik hazar martabah is ka wird kare. Insha Allah tala inhein aulaad jaisi neamat mayassar aajaye gi.

Ya Razaq: jo shakhs is ism ka wird karta hai Allah tala is ki kafalat apne zumme le leta hai.

Ya Wahab: dua key baad agar koi shakhs is ka wird kare to is ki dua qabool hogi, kisi key chungal mein phansa shakhs bahir nikal aaye ga. Kam aamdani key sabab guzr basar mushkil se hoti ho to mosalsal saat raton ko do rikat nafil ki adaigi key baad aik hazar martabah parhne se tangdasti door ho jaye gi. Aur mushkilat se nijat mile gi.

Ya Aleem: dil tajalyat se manaowar ho jaye ga aur suraj nikalne se qabal 100 martabah wird kia jaye to tamam pareshanyan door ho jayein gi. Aman o sakoon ki zindagi hogi aur Allah ka fazal o karam shamil hal rahe ga.

Ya Kabeer: har roz 100 martabah wird karne wala shakhs dunya ki nazron mein moazziz mohtaram ho jaye ga.

Ya Hafeez: yeh ism dohrane se har qisam ki aafat se nijat milti hai aur insan na gahani aafat key elawah hadsat se mehfooz rehta hai.

Ya Moqeet: agar kisi bache ki aadat o atwar kharab hon to ise yeh ism aik glass pani par dam kar key pilayein insha allah afaqah hoga.

Ya Wase: hasool rizq key liye pareshan shakhs yeh ism dohraye to is ki amdani ka wasilah paida ho jaye ga.

Ya Haq: is ka wird karne se gumshudah cheezein mil jayein gi.

Ya Qawi: apne dushmanon key hathon tung aaya hua shakhs agar is irade se yeh ism parhe keh is ka dushman ise koi noqsan nahi puncha sakta to woh dushman key ghalbe se mehfooz rahe.

Ya Moeed: agar koi fard gum ho jaye to yeh ism 70 martabah dohrane se khoya hua shakhs wapis aajaye ga.

Ya Rasheed: maghrib o isha ki namazon key baad yeh ism aik hazar martabah parhne se mushkilat door ho jati hai.

Bismillah K Fazail 50 Benefits of Bismillah Ka Wazifa Dua Bismillah Barkat

Taskheer Khalq: Har shakhs ki tamana hoti hai ke taskheer khalq ho. Muashrah mein izzat barhe. Taskheer-e-Khalq ke liye maghrib ki namaz ke baad 66 baar Bismillah parhain. 90 din ka amal hai. Is ka naqsh galay mein pahenna mujarab hai.

Fatah Mandi: Har kaam mein kamyabi aur fatah mandi ke liye namaz-e-fajar ki namaz ke baad 99 baar Bismillah ka wird karna mosar amal hai. Is ka naqsh banwa kar apne paas rakhain. Aap ko har maqsad mein fatah naseeb ho gi.

Dili Muraad: Agar kisi shakhs ki khawahish ho ke us ki tamaam mushkilaat hal ho jayain aur tamaam dili muradain puri hon tou woh shakhs 1,000 baar Bismillah ka wazifa rozana kare. Naqsh Bismillah bhi galay mein pehnay.

Kund Zehni: Agar kisi bachay ka parhne likhne ko dil na chahta ho ya usay sabaq yaad na hota ho. Bismillah Sharif ke naqosh pilane se kund zehni door hoti jati hai. Ilm hasil karne ka shoq paida ho jata hai. 30 din ka amal hai.

Dua Ki Qabooliyat: Agar kisi dua mangne se pehle Bismillah parhi jati hai tou Allah Ta'ala woh dua qabool farma leta hai. Dua ki qabooliyat ke liye 33 baar isay parhna chahiye.

Sar Dard: Sar dard door karne ke liye naqsh Bismillah se behtar koi naqsh nahin hai. Naqsh galay mein ya topi mein rakhna behtar hai.

Karobar Mein Khasara: Agar aap ko apne karobar mein musalsal khasara ho raha ho. Karobar na chalta ho, mali pareshani ho tou sirf 14 din ka amal karain. Baad az namaz Isha 786 martaba Bismillah Shareef ka amal karain. Awwal aur Akhir 33 baar Darood Shareef parhna lazmi hai. Aap ki mali pareshaniyan khatam ho jayain gi Allah ke fazal se Insha'Allah.

Har Qisam Ke Dard Ke Liye: Jism mein dard ho tou 121 baar is ka wird karain aur mareez par dam karain aur pani par dam kar ke pilain.

Dozakh Se Nijat: Agar koi fard chalte phirte Bismillah parhta hai tou woh dozakh ne nijat hasil kar leta hai. Is ke ilawa makhlooq mein us shakhs ki qadr-o-manzlat barh jati hai. Har koi us ki izzat aur ahtram karta hai.

Talism Khatam Karne Ke Liye: Tilism khatam karne ka khawahish mand 786 times isay parh kar tilism par dam shuru kar de tou talism ka khatma ho jata hai.

Rizq Mein Izafa: Rizq mein barkat ke liye maghrib ki namaz parh kar 199 baar Bismillah ka wird karna apna mamool bana lay. Ye 180 din ka amal hai.

Baraye Jaiz Mohabbat: Agar koi kisi dusre fard ko apna garwedah banana chahta ho tou Bismillah Shareef koo 99 baar isha ke baad parhe tou Insha'Allah Jaez Muhabbat paida ho jaye gi. Ye amal sirf 90 din ka hai aur sirf miyan biwi mein mohabbat aur pyar paida karne ke liye hai.
 
Zalim Hakam Se Nijat: Agar awaam hakam ke zulam se preshan hon tou zohar ki namaz ke baad 786 martaba awaam wird karain tou hakam ke zulam se nijat mil jaye gi. 41 din tak ye amal karain.

Chori Se Hifazat: Ghar ko chori aur dakay se mehfoz rakhne ke liye sotay waqt 66 baar Bismillah ka wazifa karain aur naqash banwa kar ghar mein deewar par lagayain.

Zulm Se Khalasi: Zalim ke zulm se bachne ke liye 99 baar parhain.

Margi Ya Pagal pan Se Nijat: Agar kisi ko margi ka dora parta ho ya junoon mein mubtla ho tou us shakhs ke kaan mein 66 baar Bismillah parhne se shafayabi hasil hasil hoti hai. 90 dinon tak karain.

Saas Bahu Ka Jhagda: Saas aur bahu ke jhagre ki wajah se jis ghar mein sakoon na ho wahan 786 baar Bismillah parh kar pani par dam kar ke dono ko pilayain is amal ko 90 days karain aur naqsh pehan lain tou woh bhi baes khair-o-barkat hai.

Hajat Rawai: Kisi par koi mushkil aa paray jo kisi bhi tarah hal na hoti ho, har taraf mayoosi hi mayoosi nazar aati ho tou baad az namaz magrib aik hazar baar (1000) Bismillah parhain aur 90 din jari rakhain. Insha'Allah har hajat puri ho gi. Allah ki rehmat barasti nazar aye gi.

The Sunnah of the Market

The Messenger of Allaah – sallallaahu alyhi wasallam – said; “Whoever enters a market place and says

مَنْ قَالَ حِينَ يَدْخُلُ السُّوقَ لاَ إِلَهَ إِلاَّ اللَّهُ وَحْدَهُ لاَ شَرِيكَ لَهُ لَهُ الْمُلْكُ وَلَهُ الْحَمْدُ يُحْيِي وَيُمِيتُ وَهُوَ حَىٌّ لاَ يَمُوتُ بِيَدِهِ الْخَيْرُ كُلُّهُ وَهُوَ عَلَى كُلِّ شَىْءٍ قَدِيرٌ - كَتَبَ اللَّهُ لَهُ أَلْف...َ أَلْفِ حَسَنَةٍ وَمَحَا عَنْهُ أَلْفَ أَلْفِ سَيِّئَةٍ وَبَنَى لَهُ بَيْتًا فِي الْجَنَّةِ

‘Laa ilaaha illallaahu wahdahu laa shareeka lah, lahul mulku wa lahul hamdu yuhyee wa yumeetu wahuwa hayyun laa yamootu, biyadihi alkhayru wahuwa ala kulli shayyin qadeer’(There is none worthy of worship in truth except Allah alone, He has no partners, He has the dominion and for him is all the praise, He gives life and he takes life and he is the ever living and does not die, in his hand is goodness and he is capable of all things)

Allaah will write for him thousand thousand reward and erase from him thousand thousand sin and raise him thousand thousand and build for him a house in Jannah!”

[ Recorded in Sunan al-Nasa'ee (Eng ref: Vol. 3, Book 12, Hadith 2235) and Jami` at-Tirmidhi (3428); al-Jaami' as-Sagheer (v. 1 p. 1118) Shaikh al-Albaanee said the hadeeth is Hasan , Also classified as Hassan in Takhreej Mishkat al Masaabeh (2366) , Saheeh al Jaami' (6231) and Also recorded in Ibn Taymiyyah's book called " Gaining rewards" pg. 20]

Yaa SubhaanAllaah! Just by saying this one dhikr upon entering such a place you gain so much reward and get rid of so much sin! How merciful is Allaah!

Dua when entering a marketplace (or shop etc.)

لَا إِلَهَ إِلَّا اللهُ وَحْدَهُ لَا شَرِيكَ لَهُ ، لَهُ الْمُلْكُ وَلَهُ الْحَمْدُ ، يُحْيِي وَيُمِيتُ وَهُوَ حَيٌّ لَا يَمُوتُ ، بِيَدِهِ الْخَيْرُ وَهُوَ عَلَى كُلِّ شَيْءٍ قَدِيرٌ

Translation
The messenger of Allah (may the peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: Whoever enters the market and says:

"None has the right to be worshipped except Allah, alone, without partner, to Him belongs all sovereignty and praise. He gives life and causes death, and He is living and does not die. In His hand is all good and He Omnipotent over all things."
..Allah will wipe a million bad deeds from his record and grant him a million good deeds, and will elevate him a million degree (of virtue)- ([and will build him a house in paradise] in another narration).

Transliteration

laa ilaaha ill-allaahu waḥdahu laa shareeka lah, lah-ul-mulku wa lahul-ḥamdu, yuḥyee wa yumeetu wa huwa ḥayun laa yamootu, bi yadi-hil-khayru, wa huwa ‛alaa kulli shay’in qadeer

Sources: At-Tirmidhi No# 3428 and 3429; Ibn Majah No# 2235 and others. See also Sahih Al-Kalim Al-Tayeb No# 230

Thursday 22 May 2014

Wazifa for Love and Repect Among Home Members

Recite
Sorah Yaseen 3 times,
Sorah Muzammil 7 times
Sorah Kafron 3 times
Sorah Ahad 3 times
Sorah Falaq 3 times
Sorah Nass 3 times
Ayet ul kursi 3 times
Ayet karima 11 times

blow on the Flour and cook bread and eat all home member, love and respect among them will increase

What Your Favourite Color Says About You


Whether we’re a vibrant Orange, or a peaceful Blue, our color preferences are a key to understanding our personalities. Find out what this color expert has to say about your favorite color. What does it reveal about who you really are?

White: Symbolic of purity, innocence and naivete, white has strong connotations of youth and purity. If you are an older person, your preference for white could indicate a desire for perfection and impossible ideals, maybe an attempt to recapture lost youth and freshness. It may also symbolize a desire for simplicity or the simple life.

Red: The color of strength, health, and vitality, Red is often the color chosen by someone outgoing, aggressive, vigorous and impulsive—or someone who would like to be! It goes with an ambitious nature but those who choose it can be abrupt at times, determined to get all they can out of life, quick to judge people and take sides. Red people are usually optimistic and can’t stand monotony; they are rather restless and not at all introspective, so they may be unaware of their own shortcomings. They find it hard to be objective and may blame others for any mishaps. Quiet people with a preference for red may feel the need for the warmth, strength and life-giving qualities of the color, or they blanket their true feelings under a sober exterior. Red is usually chosen by people with open and uncomplicated natures, with a zest for life.

Maroon: Harsh experience has probably matured the Maroon person into someone likable and generous. It is often a favorite color of someone who has been battered by life but has come through. It indicates a well-disciplined Red personality—one who has had difficult experiences and has not come through unmarked but who has grown and matured in the process.


Pink: This color embodies the gentler qualities of Red, symbolizing love and affection without passion. Women who prefer Pink tend to be maternal. Pink desires protection, special treatment and a sheltered life. Pink people require affection and like to feel loved and secure, perhaps wanting to appear delicate and fragile. Pink people tend to be charming and gentle, if a trifle indefinite.

Orange: This color of luxury and pleasure appeals to the flamboyant and fun-loving person who likes a lively social round. Orange people may be inclined to dramatize a bit, and people notice them, but they are generally good-natured and popular. They can be a little fickle and vacillating, but on the whole they try hard to be agreeable. Orange is the color of youth, strength, fearlessness, curiosity and restlessness.

Yellow: The color of happiness, wisdom and imagination, Yellow is chosen by the mentally adventurous, searching for novelty and self-fulfillment. Yellow usually goes with a sunny and shrewd personality, with a good business head and a strong sense of humor. It is the color of intellectuality and all things to do with the mind. Yellow folks are usually clear and precise thinkers who have a good opinion of their own mental capacities and who have lofty ideals. They may at times tend to shun responsibility, preferring freedom of thought and action.

Green: The color of harmony and balance, Green symbolizes hope, renewal and peace, and is usually liked by the gentle and sincere. Greens are generally frank, community-minded people, fairly sociable but preferring peace at any price. Green people can be too self-effacing, modest and patient, so they may get exploited by others. They are usually refined, civilized and reputable.


Blue: Soft, soothing, compassionate and caring, Blue is the color of deliberation and introspection, conservatism and duty. Patient, persevering, conscientious, sensitive and self-controlled, Blues like to be admired for their steady character and wisdom. They are faithful, but are often worriers with somewhat inflexible beliefs and can be too cautious, and suspicious of flamboyant behavior.

Blue-Green: Exacting, discriminating, poised and attractive, the Blue-Green person tends to be sensitive, intellectual and refined, persevering and stable if rather detached. Blue-Greens have excellent taste, and are usually courteous and charming, capable but often refusing help or guidance.

Turquoise: Complex, imaginative and original, Turquoise people drive themselves hard and may be in a state of turmoil under their outwardly cool exterior.

Lavender: This is often chosen by a person who lives “on a higher plane,” who never notices anything sordid and who is always impeccably and beautifully dressed. Lavender people may be on a continual quest for culture and the refined things of life, high and noble causes but without the necessity of getting their hands dirty. A Lavender person is usually creative, charming, witty and civilized.

Purple: Purples are highly individual, fastidious, witty and sensitive, with a strong desire to be unique and different. Temperamental, expansive and artistic, a Purple person may become aloof and sarcastic when misunderstood. If you chose Purple, you tend to be unconventional, tolerant and dignified, likely to achieve positions of authority.


Brown: A Brown person has stamina and patience, tending to be very solid and substantial, conscientious, dependable, steady and conservative. Browns are not impulsive, and may be inarticulate and tactless but they love responsibility and are reliable and kindly. If you chose Brown, watch out for a tendency to be obstinate and inflexible.

Gray: The color of caution and compromise, diligent Grays search for composure and peace and often work hard without reward. Older Grays like life to run on an even keel with few ups and downs. Young Grays may be withdrawing from life and suppressing their personalities. Grays often have good business ability and tend to work too much.

Black: Dignified and impressive without being showy, Black people want to give the appearance of mystery, but their preference may also indicate a suppression of desires and worldly aims, suggesting hidden depths and inner longings.

What Your Signature Says About You

The art of reading handwriting is called graphology.

The logic is pretty simple.

Handwriting is nothing but an output of the electrical impulses of the brain.

Since it is an output, one can gauge the person/individual from the handwriting.

Now, why stress on the signature?

In an ever increasing electronic world, you just don't write that often. you email, you text, you surf. all that leaves you using the standard fonts and hence everything seems similar.

however, you still sign documents, contracts, applications and more. That is where your personality, your personality traits can and are visible.

think about your childhood. your early childhood, in the early years of school. you were taught repeatedly how to write. your teachers, parents spent a considerable time trying to get you to write in that cursive handwriting that everyone desires. but here is the kicker. all of us landed up with our own style of handwriting, didn't we?

That's coz, we are individuals, with our own personality, our own desires, abilities and learning. Your handwriting is nothing but you expressed on paper.

Your signature, is a snapshot of that personality.

The Basics
I wrote about the some basic rules of handwriting analysis and how you could find out a little bit more about yourself.  The hub 'What does my handwriting say about me?' is at http://hubpages.com/hub/what-does-my-handwriting-tell-about-me

Now back to your signature.

some of the same rules as handwriting apply here (please read here) to.

But some are only for signatures:

1.Size of the signature
2.Size of the first letter of the signature
3.Slant of the signature
4.The use of first name, last name or alphabets
5.Underlining the signature
6.Dotting the signature
7.Any backward loops in the signature

Size of the signature

The rule of thumb is this ' the bigger the signature, the more gregarious, outgoing the person is'

the smaller the signature, the person could be:

- a miser with money, emotions or self

- an introvert

- unassuming


Size of the first letter of the signature

The size of the first letter gives you an idea of what the person thinks or feels about themselves in relation to or in comparison to the rest of the world.

the difference in the highest point of the letter and the lowest point is the percieved difference they feel is between them and the common people.

this is sometimes also used to gauge ego.

some variations are used.

- if the letter is in capital, (S) the more pronounced self-eesteem

- is the letter is in lettercase (s) then the person is more grounded

Slant of the signature

an upward slant shows ambition and a forward thinking individual

an straight signature, someone who is balanced in approach to life and work

and downward slant, i.e. the signature starts on the line and moves below may show someone who is not confident of themselves or had self-esteem issues

The use of first name, last name or alphabets

most people use both, the first name & the last name (family name) in their signatures.

but here are some variations and what they mean:

 - only first name is used - the person believes in him/herself and does not take recourse to family.  is independent in thought and will most likely move out to work by him/herself.  very conscious of the money they make

- only last name used - the person is a family person. loves them, but may have issues surviving outside the protection offered.

- first name letters + last name full - balanced.

- last name signed before first name - puts family before self

underlining the signature

no underline - unassuming person. not too fussy and does not need to impress self-worth or accomplishments on anyone.

one line below the signature - likes people to know he/she exists.  is bound to talk about self but not too much or not in excess.  likes to ensure presence is felt.

two lines below the signature - loves to take credit. ensures people know the favors he/she has done for them.

the line cuts through the signature - tends to go back on his/her word and generally has a tendency to contradict him/herself

Dotting the signature
some people will dot the signature.

most will do so after scratching a line under the signature.

the line is to ensure that they underline their presence, but a dot is worse.

one dot - you should know who I am, and what I do and what I did, but here is another reminder

two dots - dont forget who did this.


Any backward loops in the signature

it could mean any of the following:

- someone who thinks a lot, about everything

- someone who will take everything upon themselves and be miserable till everyone around is happy

- someone who will take go about explanations in a round about way

- someone who may fib if he/she feel it is required.

What you can do!
handwriting analysis or signature analysis is not an exact science and really, you should develop your own little notations on the material mentioned.

I started many years back and over the years started creating a mental model.  How I use it is like this:

- the handwriting or signature will not be the only criteria to work with, for or hire someone.

- I will form a general opinion (like all us do, first impressions) and then take away or add to that mental picture.

But here is the fantastic part!

you can change yourself, your personality, a little at a time, slowly, but you can, but changing your signature.

leave your comments and I will tell you what you can do.

What Your Hugging Style Says About You

Hugging was invented in 3500 B.C. as a way for cavemen on the Mongolian plains to keep warm during the months of November, December and February (January was fur dress month, so hugging wasn't necessary). Luckily the tradition continues today. The hug, otherwise known as the bosom kiss, is one of our most basic human gestures of friendship and intimacy. Do you know what your preferred style of embrace says about you?

The Bear Hug

Hallmark: Full body contact with a solid squeeze.

What it says about you: You are confident and emotional. Your favorite singer is Celine Dion. You like Jack Black movies. Your favorite color is yellow.

Side Hug

Hallmark: One arm around the waist or shoulders.

What it says about you: You can be awkward. You go to summer camp.  You like foods served on a stick.

Patty-Cake Hug

Hallmark: Patting the back of the huggee. Guys often do this in conjunction with the Air Hug (see below).

What it says about you: You would rather not be hugging. You are rhythmic, perhaps in band. You think babies are cute.

Ring Around the Collar

Hallmark: Arms wrapped around the person's neck like you are trying to become a necklace.

What it says about you: You are short. You like tall people. You want to make out.

Unnecessary Roughness Hug

Hallmark: Patting, squeezing or colliding with huggee with a little too much force.

What it says about you: You can be aggressive and/or dramatic. You are an only child. You love anything peppermint flavored. You are on the wrestling team.

Lingering Hug

Hallmark: Never letting go.

What it says about you: You are needy and/or in love. You chew a lot of gum. You are from Minnesota. Your favorite flowers are irises but you also like calla lilies.

Air Hug

Hallmark: Arms in a wide arc around the huggee without any of that uncomfortable touching stuff.

What it says about you: You are afraid that you smell. You enjoy professional wrestling as much as the next guy. You eat hamburgers three times a week.

The "Special" Hug

Hallmark: We're not allowed to say here, but it involves the letters H, N, and D.

What it says about you: Bow-chika-wow-wow.

How do you hug it out?

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